
Bespoke Private Service
Family Manager / Family Assistant - Poseidon
Reports To: The Principal
Work Schedule: Full Time, flexible schedule to be determined
Location: Bernal Heights, San Francisco
Start Date: ASAP
Salary Range: $175,000 - $200,000
A vibrant family seeks an exceptional Family Manager to become an integral part of their household. This role is perfect for a dedicated professional orchestrating family life with precision, warmth, and foresight. The ideal candidate will seamlessly blend the roles of household coordinator, children's advocate, and family confidant.
As the Family Manager, you'll be the linchpin of daily operations, overseeing everything from children's packed schedules to household logistics. Your days will be filled with diverse responsibilities: chauffeuring family members, preparing nourishing meals, managing calendars, and ensuring the household runs like a well-oiled machine. Weekend availability is key, as you'll be there to support family activities and special moments.
But this role goes beyond taskscreating a nurturing, joyful environment where every family member can thrive. Your emotional intelligence and genuine connection with the children will be paramount. You'll anticipate needs, solve problems proactively, and bring a positive energy that uplifts the entire household.
The ideal candidate will bring a bachelor's degree or equivalent experience, at least 3 years in family-focused roles, and a track record of progression from nanny to personal assistant or household manager. Your project management skills, financial acumen, and tech-savviness will be put to good use as you quarterback multiple family initiatives.
This role is more than a job, it's a chance to become a cherished part of a family's life, making a meaningful impact every day. If you're ready to bring your expertise, warmth, and can-do attitude to a dynamic family setting, this could be your perfect next step.
Expectations
Responsibilities
Benefits:
3 weeks of PTO
IRA Savings Plan
Health Insurance
New Years Day
Martin Luther King Jr. Day
Memorial Day
Juneteenth
Independence Day
Labor Day
Thanksgiving Day
Friday after Thanksgiving
Christmas Eve
Christmas Day

Bespoke Private Service recruits executive and senior-level talent for single-family offices and family foundations, specializing in the family and lifestyle operations of family offices rather than asset management or investment roles.
Our placements include:
- Family Office Leadership: Chief of Staff, COO, Family Office Manager, Director of Operations
- Estate & Property: Estate Manager, Director of Residence, Property & Construction Leadership, House Manager
- Executive Support: Executive Assistant, Personal Assistant
- Foundation Leadership: Executive Director, COO, Program Director, Chief Impact Officer
- Specialized Roles: Private Chef, Director of Hospitality, Grant Manager
Our work is built on transparency, discretion, and authentic relationships—we see both families and candidates as people first, never reducing partnerships to transactions.
Our Approach:
Through our 7-step Evolved Process, we go beyond traditional recruiting with comprehensive discovery and assessment, detailed job descriptions, candidate scoring rubrics, and structured interview frameworks. We rigorously vet candidates and provide 90-day post-placement mentorship to ensure both families and professionals thrive.
Part of a Larger Ecosystem:
Bespoke Private Service is one pillar cultivating an ecosystem to support multigenerational thriving families:
- Bespoke Private Service connects families with exceptional talent
- Family Office Mastermind Group connects family office professionals with world-class domain experts
- The Greenhouse cultivates next-generation family office leaders
Our mission: To serve families navigating multigenerational success while connecting exceptional candidates with rewarding careers—built on transparency, mutuality, and respect.